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John Tudor Graves

June 7, 1927 ~ February 16, 2020 (age 92)


John Graves, 92, a longtime resident of Longbranch, WA, and previously a 43 year resident of Mercer Island, died February 16, 2020.

John was born in Seattle, WA., attended Franklin High School, and joined the Merchant Marines when he was only 17 years old.  He served all over Southeast Asia, and enjoyed traveling through and exploring Bali, Java, Japan, Korea.  After returning to Seattle, he finished his B.A. at the University of Washington.  He was passionate about the Huskies, attending football games as a season ticket holder for over 40  years!  He and Marise attended many Rose Bowl games in California.

After receiving his education, he was stationed in Longbranch, N.J., where he met Marise Whidden on a blind date on the Jersey Shore.  Six months later they were married and traveled across the country to start their new life in Seattle, and then Mercer Island, WA.

John LOVED sailing, camping, traveling on road trips, as well as attending to his yard and garden.  Marise and John shared these passions with their kids. The family traveled across country many times, visiting National Parks,and family.  And later, traveling without children, in their motor home, enjoying all of life's blessings with friends and family. John also spent many hours sailing with his kids on Puget Sound and Lake Washington.

John is survived by daughter Gayle (Tex), son John (Joni), daughter Nancy (Blake).  Grandchildren Memoree, Jackson, Sean, Riley, and Natasha.  Great Grandchildren Preston, Malia, Priscila, and Marie. 

In lieu of flowers, please send donations in John's name to The Humane Society, Mercer Island Kiwanis Club, Key Peninsula Community Services, or Northwest Harvest.

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Graveside Service
March 7, 2020

12:00 PM
Haven of Rest Memorial Park
8503 Hwy 16 NW
Gig Harbor, WA 98332


Tacoma Pierce County Humane Society
2608 Center St, Tacoma, Tacoma WA 98409
Tel: 1-253-383-2733

Key Peninsula Community Services
17015 9th St Ct NW, Lakebay WA 98349
Tel: 1-253-884-4440

Northwest Harvest
PO Box 12272, Seattle WA 98102
Tel: 1-800-722-6924

Mercer Island Kiwanis Club
4120 86th Ave SE, Mercer Island WA 98040
Tel: 1-206-232-0672

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